i do it once and they expect..

it. 

Every time. 

All the time.

Dependent.

Like a given. 

Giving is Like. 

That sometime. 

“That's why I don’t..”

“Be careful who you give..”

But what if you were careful how you gave?

What if you gave differently? 

As I’ve gotten older, my hands down favorite way to give is, anonymously. 

Untraceable. 

I don’t need a thank you. 

If I’m giving online I give the least amount of information possible. 

I select all the “hide” options. 

Private. 

Confidential. 

Anonymous.

I don’t need a thank you.

If I’m giving in person I like to mimic the same idea.

How can I give this gift while offering the least amount of info possible? 

How can this gift be “hidden”?

Private.

Confidential. 

Anonymous. 

I don’t need a thank you. 

Sometimes I give it to a friend and ask them to give it to the person (or cause) without saying who it’s from.

And if I absolutely feel like they can’t hold water, I’d ask them to at least wait until after I leave. 

It’s pretty hard for someone to expect something from you, if they don’t know who you are. 

Private. 

Confidential. 

Anonymous. 

Hidden. 

You don’t need a thank you. 

God knows.